Looking at this topic..it makes me wonder how many wrong decisions I've taken so far..the mistakes were not costly but certainly it's torturing..well..a typical taurus always can't avoid the word 'stubborn'..
It's a nice thing that you have strong determination and the will to achieve something beyond your reach..but at the meantime..u must learn how to leave some capacity to yourself to accept third-party or second opinion..do not push yourself to the corner just because you think you're right...when you aren't..you might have your own reason but rmb that's not always right..
Take a look at me as a prime example..I believed I have announced my intention to leave long long long time ago..but now..my situation remains and nothing changes...why? Just solely a word..stubborn..
I always that with a degree of mine like such would definitely get a job in no time..however...my blog reveals it all..reality is always cruel my friends..my parents' friends advised me to take something that is related to HR..well my decision is to remain as it is..I have considered it but I told myself to stay where I am and not taking a step forward to any other ideas..one month..two months..and now approximately 7 months looking for jobs...i must wave the white flag..time for me to take U Turn..I hope it's not too late to make this decision..
It was hard at first when my mom lectured me..i feel kinda reluctant to accept what she said but when i calmed myself down..it's pretty reasonable...my nose could have been better if i had gone for the surgery before the commencement of my work..I would have changed my work if I had listened to them...
What done is done..I have made the decision to perform a big U Turn..most probably I'll be taking Masters..I planned to take that after few years but it seems it has to be brought forward..hopefully this time may god bless me everything goes smoothly for me..after that I'll be continuing my job hunting again...
Now my mind is much clearer..at least I'm trying to overcome one my fatal weaknesses..I need to open myself to other opinions...I'm already afraid to be that stubborn anymore..it makes you blind and you gotta go through helluva twist and turns before you realize you're wrong..
Always rmb...it's good to determine on something you believe..but try open to other opinions as well..advices are hard to be absorbed nevertheless it could benefit you in the long term..or even in your life..until the next time..hohohoho..sleepy after a can of beer...hohohoho..nite guys!
